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Motherhood… How I love thee… Part #trois


so goes the rest of the saga. i let Milo out from the abusive blathering of his father to walk him out of the house. i snooped around the corner at the cat tower because i wanted to hear what he had to say.
the conversation pretty much goes like this:
Dad: what you did waswrong Milo and i am not happy with the way you have been acting lately
Milo: (silence)
Dad: i have always treated you like a friend and i am not not going to be able to do it that way. like i said before i am going to have to come down harder on you and i don’t want to do that
Milo: (sighs)
Dad: do you want me to give you what i gave you today? (backhanded slap)
Milo: no
Dad: okay so just remember… what you did today has tarnished our relationship and i don’t think it will ever go back to the way it was. i love you and even though you are my biological son, i have begun to love you less and am sure how much longer i can be a part of your life if you continue to do what you are doing.
Milo: (silence)
his dad walked away without giving Milo a hug or telling him he loved the boy. what he did say was
“Stop fucking up!” as he walked to his car.

some days i really want to just find a dark hole to put that man in forever. i don’t get how he thinks that the actions of a 9 year old boy is going to end a relationship that sucks anyway. you are supposed to love your children unconditionally regardless of the facg tht ehy mess up. there is a reason why we as parents spend our time and precious energy teaching our children right from wrong and sacrificing for better outcomes for our children.
i am confused as to why he would even think to elevate the child to the level of an equal with him and then drop bombs on him.

dad needs a sedative and my son needs a father.

goddess

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4 responses to “Motherhood… How I love thee… Part #trois

  1. michelle secretario ⋅

    sounds like daddy needs to take his own advice “Stop fucking up!”

    asshole.

  2. Rhonda Logan ⋅

    OMG Asshole is an understatement. Milo’s lucky to have a mom that talks to him. Wow.. no wonder that boy is acting out. He’s probably confused on where his boundaries lie with his father. Poor kid. Keep doing what you’re doing girl. Its all you CAN do. My mom used to tell me.. you love your father because he’s your father. You don’t have to LIKE him. Those words helped me a LOT growing up. I hope Milo finds what he needs to come to terms with things. Much love to you Lavinia ❤

  3. OMG! I was talking to my neighbor this weekend and he heard Milo talking to his dad. He is a bit odd and even HE said it wasn’t eight what his dad said to him. Stupid man.

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